November 2011
41 posts
Nov 29th
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: *sigh* →
elliebuzz: You have probably guessed/know from posts of mine I’ve made in the past, but I am forcing myself to finally just… admit it. After typing up that last post on my rant blog, I just…. cannot deny it anymore even though I still feel unsure. I am not… asexual anymore. I am sorry I have turned into a… No need to feel ashamed or saddened by this! There’s no rule that says...
Nov 29th
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The Anxious Writer: Depressing dating stuff. TW... →
betterthanlegos: theanxiouswriter: I suddenly feel like I should start dating again to make everyone around me happy. People who have always said they accepted my asexuality are starting to show that they really aren’t too keen on the idea. I was told that I should start joining dating groups that meet around the city so I’m not a… You do what makes you happy. I know it’s hard sometimes, but...
Nov 29th
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Depressing dating stuff. TW for unhappy sex and...
I suddenly feel like I should start dating again to make everyone around me happy. People who have always said they accepted my asexuality are starting to show that they really aren’t too keen on the idea. I was told that I should start joining dating groups that meet around the city so I’m not a lonely 45-year-old with a hundred cats in years to come. I am feeling….rather...
Nov 28th
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I'm Greg. Therefore, tea.: We should seriously... →
greenchestnuts: For any given post on asexuality that has a certain number of voices from outside the ace spectrum, how long does it take to devolve into the discussion of whether or not aces are queer? I think we’ve all noticed this phenomenon… Now, I’m a scientist. I like to test things…
Nov 28th
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Nov 20th
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Nov 20th
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“Like most women, I currently live in a society where violence, harassment and...”
– Tiger Beatdown (via pnasty) This is so relevant to everything. (via mindyshabibti) THIS THIS THIS.  This is what rape culture looks like. (via silverqueen) And so many men fucking do not get this.   (via northerndownpour) Thank you for this. Really. Thank you. (via...
Nov 20th
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Nov 19th
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Your dash lacks some birds with arms
halfdeadbears: teizoku:
Nov 18th
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Nov 18th
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“metapianycist said: HOW DOES ONE MAKE CIDER HARD. PLEASE TELL ME. HARD CIDER IS...”
– My parents home-brew. Basically, you get a home-brew kit and you get directions on how to brew. There are a lot of privately-owned, almost freelance brew companies that sell the ingredients. Once you get the barley and yeast and sugar and whatever else is needed to brew, you just follow the...
Nov 18th
Critique of popular reason: I just had to explain... →
lunasspecto: metapianycist: demisexuality: thesemicouture: My professor was talking about sexual development and she starting listing different sexualities, and when she came to asexuality she goes, ‘And some people believe this thing called asexuality exists, but it…
Nov 18th
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mom's hard cider
Woooo yeaah! My mom’s home-made hard cider is delicious and potent! Love my parents!
Nov 18th
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Reblog if you want your followers to go anon and...
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Nov 18th
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“My fellow queers and assorted allies: we have got to stop using arguments like...”
– Social Justice League - Fauxgress Watch: Born This Way.  (via anotherlgbttumblr) I love being queer.  (via playasimplemelody) Good point. Hadn’t thought of it that way. (via orangerexxus) I have said this before and I will say it again: I would choose to be queer every single time. (via...
Nov 18th
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Dear People Who Are Hating on the Asexual...
asexualityexists: purewanderlust: Kindly shut the fuck up. Thank you. Love,  Casye
Nov 18th
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Nov 18th
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Nov 17th
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Nov 17th
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Nov 14th
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Nov 14th
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mattack: Words are not fists: some thoughts on how... →
meridianl posted this. I think she’s rad, and this should be passed on. This is, I think, an important post. I’ve been thinking about men in women’s studies classes, and jokes about “male-bashing.” This semester’s women’s studies class is like most: overwhelmingly female. I’ve got 32 women…
Nov 13th
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Nov 12th
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I'm Greg. Therefore, tea.: On "You're only like... →
toranseisstrong: I don’t understand why people get so upset at the idea that you dare be affected by traumatic things. Like somehow these things aren’t real because something in your life drastically changed you. It’s not as though we are all the sum of our genes, moving through life and… Very well said. I’ve been thinking about this more—the “born this way”...
Nov 11th
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Nov 11th
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Nov 11th
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Nov 11th
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“I don’t always drink tea, but when I do, I prefer Trader Joe’s...”
Nov 11th
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Nov 11th
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Nov 11th
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Nov 11th
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B-day!
I’m 25 today. I feel…the same. :D 
Nov 8th
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Nov 8th
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Why am I upset by this?
I visited my hometown this weekend for my birthday. I love my family and it was great seeing a lot of my relatives. I’ve always been very close to my parents and always go to them for advice. My family is supportive and I’ve never felt uneasy around them or unsure of myself. Well…I went home and had an odd conversation with some of my relatives that really, really upset me. Like,...
Nov 7th
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Nov 5th
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I'm so queer I broke the Kinsey scale.: ASK:... →
hopelessly-romantic-cynic: bubonickitten: projectqueer: (TRIGGER WARNING: discussion of cissexism, cissexist language/slurs, suicide (it gets better campaign), rape apologism, victim-blaming, body-shaming, slut-shaming) Oh where to start with Dan Savage… Anon, I live in…
Nov 5th
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(TRIGGER WARNING: RAPE) This is Why Women Are... →
This past Thursday, a group of men started cat-calling/hitting on a group of women in Chicago.  When the women said, no, the men threw bottles and then SHOT at their car as they tried to drive away.  One woman was shot in the shoulder, and the driver took a bottle in the head as she tried to drive off.  Last month in Washington, DC a Transwoman was shot for turning down a man’s request for sex...
Nov 2nd
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Nov 2nd
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Nov 2nd
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Nov 2nd
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