The Anxious Writer

I mostly reblog things that interest me; cats, feminism, asexuality, etc. I have intracranial hypertension and I love Vegeta!

Anonymous asked: So, I've heard that some asexuals masturbate, but do other asexuals masturbate to anything? I'm sort of worried that because I masturbate to images, I might not be asexual.

thefrauuu:

life-of-an-asexual:

i am not an asexual who masturbates, so i have no idea how any of that works, but i think just because you’re using images of traditionally hot people to get off, it doesn’t mean you’re not ace. since you don’t experience sexual attraction, you’re just using an image to enhance whatever fantasy accompanies your physical stimulation to give yourself an orgasm. or is that off base? do our followers who do masturbate have anything to add?

~Mod Q

Hey there. I’m an aromantic asexual with a bondage fetish. I’ve had this fetish my entire life so I believed there was no way I could possibly be asexual. However….I am not attracted to anyone. Within my little fantasies, there are also people! Here’s the kicker, though, none of the people are in detail and I do not focus on them. Basically, they are there to keep the “story” moving. I am also not sexually attracted to rope or tape or handcuffs or anything like that. My body reacts to the idea or feeling of being restrained, but I can get along without being tied up or having any real people involved….ever.

So, in answer to your question, YES! An asexual can envision specific things that actually turn them on. Themes, ideas, fetishes, etc. It all comes down to looking at a person and being sexually attracted to someone and wanting to be sexually active with that person (or people). But having a kink doesn’t mean you experience sexual attraction. It just means you might have a strong libido.

http://www.okcupid.com/tests/what-kind-of-asexual-are-you

misandry-mermaid:

The sad reality is that many women BELIEVE the abusive, sexist partner’s messages and gaslighting and they tell themselves they must be overreacting, they must be crazy, and that it’s not worth making a big deal out of, let alone breaking up with him. But we deserve better.

misandry-mermaid:

The sad reality is that many women BELIEVE the abusive, sexist partner’s messages and gaslighting and they tell themselves they must be overreacting, they must be crazy, and that it’s not worth making a big deal out of, let alone breaking up with him. But we deserve better.

(via thefrauuu)

I love how anti-feminists say that feminists blame all men. No. We're the only ones who hold men accountable for their shitty behaviour. The rest of society would rather absolve men from any responsibility and instead blame women for provoking them. And men are just not used to that.

stfueverything:

analblaster-9000:

You kind of proved our point. “Holding accountable,” is just a fancy way of saying blame. Also, you guys erase female perpetrators of rape and shit. Lord, if you exist which you most likely don’t, help the victims of lesbian rape because feminists sure ain’t gonna.

You’re…

Comic-Con 2014: Outcry, action against harassment grows

(Source: project-blackbird)

The problem here is that these squealing man-children, so desperate to keep women out of their precious games, want it both ways. They want gaming to be taken seriously as a culture and art form, while at the same time throwing an unbelievable tantrum when subjected to serious criticism. This is ludicrous and immature on so many levels. Gaming isn’t for you, anymore. Gaming is for everyone. Everyone gets to have their say, to make their criticism, and gaming doesn’t need you to defend it.

The only thing left for these people to do is put their toys back in the pram and huddle together as the tide rises against them, until they wake up in five year’s time and realise that Assassin’s Creed 7 was actually a pretty good game, even though they had to waste three precious seconds flicking the gender over to ‘male’ on the character creation screen so they can feel comfortable again. Change is inevitable, especially when half of the freaking gamers in the country are women and actually want to play some games that don’t treat them like disposable trash.

So, here’s another change for you: if you really think feminism, or women, are destroying games, or that LGBT people and LGBT relationships have no place in games, or that games in any way belong to you or are “under attack” from political correctness or “social justice warriors”: please leave this website. I don’t want your clicks, I don’t want your hits, I don’t want your traffic. Leave now and please don’t come back.

thecuckoohaslanded:

earthlydreams:

feminismisatrick:

misanthrpologie:

Saving Face (2012), acid attacks on women in Pakistan

Meanwhile, in America, feminists are complaining about how dress codes are oppressive.

You idiots have never experienced oppression, and pray you never do, because this is what it looks like.

As a South Asian American feminist, let me remind everyone that oppression is not a competition.

Just because we fight one type of sexism doesn’t mean we don’t care about other instances of sexism that don’t affect us directly in our day to day lives.

My heart goes out to this woman and the hundreds of other victims like her. I want to educate people about these kinds of incidents. I support organizations that help women like this.

You may think that dress code issues are trivial, but they are related to a larger issue of women’s bodily autonomy, which affects women’s health and safety.

So please, let’s try to bring awareness and bring about change instead of insulting entire groups of people because they are facing issues that are less scary than the one presented.

oppression is not a competition

thank you so much for this wording

Meanwhile, women and girls everywhere are being abused or assaulted.  http://whenwomenrefuse.tumblr.com/  (to feminismisatrick)

(via misandry-mermaid)

Sam Pepper handcuffs himself to women on the street, refusing to release one woman until she kisses him

whitestuffknowslimits:

thebobblehat:

trashbagtricks:

aka14kgold:

jean-luc-gohard:

celebreceipts:

In January, Sam Pepper uploaded a video called “How To Get A Girlfriend Easy” in which he sneaks up behind or beside unsuspecting women on the street and handcuffs them to himself. He then tells them they’re “his girlfriend now.”

When one victim reacts furiously, saying “No! I don’t know you! Take it off!” and demands that he remove the handcuffs, he refuses and replies with “We’re dating now.” She tries again, “Look, I don’t know where you’re from, but we don’t do this in America. Take this off,” while fighting with the cuffs. He refuses again, insisting they’re “going on a date.” She then tells him that she’s married, to which he says “No, you’re married to me now,” and refuses yet again to remove the handcuffs.

At the end of the video, another woman is pleading with him to undo the handcuffs, and he refuses to until she kisses him on the lips. Pepper appears to think the entire scenario is hilarious at best and endearingly misguided at worst, while the women being “pranked” are visibly livid, terrified, and profoundly uncomfortable.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

We need to stop calling assault by white men on men of color and women of all races “pranks,” because it makes them seem lighthearted and fun, not like the violent criminal acts they are.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE PRANKS.

im throwing up

I would have beat the shit out of him.

I wish he did that to me. I’ll finally have a reason to cause major bodily harm to a dick who deserves it.

(via celebreceipts)

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From left to right: Borgos, Shugesh, Toma, Fasha, Bardock, Peragus, and Turles.

Nanasineco

From left to right: Borgos, Shugesh, Toma, Fasha, Bardock, Peragus, and Turles.